Section 1
The Overlooked Device
Smart speakers are one of the most commonly overlooked devices when parents think about internet safety. They're in the kitchen, the living room, sometimes the bedroom — always listening, always connected — and most families set them up once and never think about them again.
The concerns are real but manageable: smart speakers can play explicit music on request (without the content filtering you might have set up in Spotify), answer web searches without filtering, and in the case of Alexa, make purchases charged to your Amazon account just by asking. Children — especially younger ones — will ask a smart speaker things they wouldn't ask a parent or search for on their own, simply because it's there and easy.
Amazon Alexa, by default, can order products on Amazon and charge your account just by voice request. Children have ordered toys, snacks, and far more expensive items without parents realizing how easy it is. Disabling voice purchasing should be the first thing you do.
Section 2
Amazon Alexa
Alexa settings are managed through the Alexa app on your smartphone. All the controls described here are in the app.
Essential settings to configure
Disable voice purchasing (do this first)
Alexa app → More → Settings → Account Settings → Voice Purchasing. Toggle off "Purchase by voice," or set a 4-digit voice code that must be spoken before any purchase is completed. The code option is better than disabling entirely if adults in the house want to use the feature.
Turn on Explicit Filtering for music
Alexa app → More → Settings → Music & Podcasts → Explicit Language Filter → toggle ON. This applies to Amazon Music and some other connected music services.